{"id":343,"date":"2016-06-15T10:08:57","date_gmt":"2016-06-15T10:08:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/drsafehands.com\/blog\/?p=343"},"modified":"2016-09-28T07:15:31","modified_gmt":"2016-09-28T07:15:31","slug":"i-lost-my-love-to-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drsafehands.com\/blog\/i-lost-my-love-to-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"I LOST MY LOVE TO SEX!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sapna and I dated for 3 months before tying the knot. Though I loved her deeply, I never physically displayed my emotions to her. Given the attractive and gorgeous girl that she was, anybody would have died to just hold her hand. But I could never gather enough courage to tell her than I am not inclined to physical intimacy.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps my impeccable academic record, my gentle ways or may be that I landed a plum job while still in college convinced her that I was the right guy for her.<\/p>\n<p>On our wedding day, I was biting my nails anxiously. The thought of sharing the bed with Sapna was enough to send shivers down my spine. The long-kept secret would be out soon.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/drsafehands.com\/services\/male_clinic\" target=\"_blank\">Was I gay ?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Was I asexual?<\/p>\n<p>Or simply <a href=\"https:\/\/drsafehands.com\/services\/male_clinic\" target=\"_blank\">impotent?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I did not know? I had kept it under wraps all along. Kept it hidden from even myself.<br \/>\nFinally, the moment arrived. My bold and beautiful wife was waiting for me in our beautifully done bedroom. I tried to be as casual as I could and sweet talked her to sleep.<br \/>\nNight after night went by. Empty. Barren. 56 nights to be precise.<\/p>\n<p>She tried to help, tried to understand, tried in every possible way she could.<br \/>\nWhen the sun rose, she was her delightful best, hiding from the world my secret, now our secret.<\/p>\n<p>Then the unthinkable happened. Without so much as a hint, she left.<\/p>\n<p>No good byes. No angry words. No \u201cI hate you\u201d. Just vanished in thin air.<\/p>\n<p>It has been three dreadful years since then. I loved her then. I love her now. I shall love her forever.<\/p>\n<p>Everything was perfect between us. Well almost everything but one thing. And that ruined me.<\/p>\n<p>Did she not try to help? Did she not try to adjust? She did all she could.<br \/>\nI just needed to face my fear, rise up to the challenge and face it head on. She was by my side.<\/p>\n<p>She was indeed a dream. 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